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Friday, January 30, 2026

Baby Step # 3

I never realized that skipping an emergency fund πŸ’ΈπŸ›‘ could still leave you feeling like you’re chasing every paycheck πŸƒ‍♂️πŸ’¨. I’ve experienced it firsthand.

You probably know that I started investing through time deposits/MP2. On paper, it felt like the smart move—I was putting money aside and thinking about compounding interest. But deep down, I knew I couldn’t touch that money for at least five years. Even with investments growing in the background, I was still living paycheck to paycheck, never feeling fully secure about my immediate needs.

✅Check out related post Why Emergency Funds Matter to Me 


Then I started my emergency fund, following Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps. After paying off my debts in Baby Step #2, moving to Baby Step #3 completely changed my mindset. Just knowing that I could cover one month of expenses without stress gave me an incredible sense of relief 🏠.

This “gap fund” isn’t just money set aside—it’s a psychological boost. Suddenly, I feel rich, not because of what I’ve invested for the future, but because of the control and security I have in the present πŸ’–. It’s amazing how having accessible, liquid funds can change your relationship with money, reduce stress, and give you confidence to make decisions without fear.

I now see that an emergency fund isn’t just a step in a financial plan—it’s a foundation. Investments will always be important, but the freedom that comes from knowing you can cover your essential expenses without any problem is amazing. For me, starting this fund has been a small action with a huge psychological payoff, and it’s made all the difference in how I experience my finances.


That is it for now. Thanks for reading all the way.


Wednesday, January 28, 2026

Compounding Interest vs Following the Baby Steps # 3 to the Tea πŸ€”πŸ’­

Compounding Interest vs Following the Baby Steps to the Tea πŸ€”πŸ’­

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about compounding interest and the incredible advantage it can offer over time πŸ“ˆ✨. Being in my late 30s, I feel the pressure to make the most of the time I have left. The idea of letting even small investments grow exponentially over the years is hard to resist—it feels like a way to get ahead without constantly hustling for more money πŸ’Έ.

Yet, here’s the challenge: I’m still not done with Baby Step #3, and that makes me pause. For context, Baby Step #3, as taught by Dave Ramsey, is all about building a fully funded emergency fund—3 to 6 months of living expenses tucked away safely πŸ›ŸπŸ’°. It’s designed to give peace of mind, a buffer for life’s unexpected events, and the freedom to make decisions without panic. And honestly, starting this step has already lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. For the first time in a long while, I feel calmer, knowing that my essential expenses for the next few months are covered 🧘‍♀️🏠. In other words, I’ve experienced it firsthand, and it’s solid proof that the Baby Steps really work.


And yet, the pull of compounding interest is strong. Time is one of the few things we can’t get back, and the thought of letting my money grow over the years makes me wonder if I’m “missing out” by focusing on safety first. I think, “If I start investing now, even a small amount could grow into something significant decades from now.” That feeling is hard to ignore.


✅Check out my blog post on how I started my emergency fund here.


But then I remind myself of the peace that comes with following Baby Step #3. There’s something about knowing that your basic needs are covered that no chart, no projection, and no percentage can ever replicate. It’s a type of freedom that’s hard to explain—a calm that allows you to think clearly, make decisions without panic, and plan for long-term growth 🧘‍♀️πŸ’–.

This has made me realize that there’s a reason the Baby Steps exist. They’re not arbitrary—they’re a proven system for building both security and wealth sustainably. While compounding interest can help grow money, its purpose is really different with the Baby step # 3. 

So, what’s stopping me from following the Baby Steps to the tea? Honestly, nothing. I’ve already felt the relief and confidence that comes from Baby Step #3, and I know it works. I could continue investing and chasing compounding gains, but the safety and stability I’ve gained by focusing on my 'gap fund' emergency fund are invaluable πŸ›‘️πŸ’°.

At the same time, the thought of letting my money grow while I wait is hard to ignore. I know that once my emergency fund is fully in place, I’ll be able to invest with confidence and take full advantage of compounding interest. But for now, I’m left wondering: is it wiser to prioritize safety and follow the steps exactly as outlined, or should I try to balance both—building my emergency fund while still investing a bit here and there?

I don’t have the answer yet 🀷‍♀️πŸ’­. For now, I’ll continue along currently what I am doing—hoping that when the time comes, I’ll make the choice that’s right for my future.


That is it for now. Thanks for reading all the way πŸ™πŸ’›







Sunday, January 25, 2026

Having fun topping up my Emergency Fund πŸ’°πŸ₯³

I didn’t realize that funding my “gap fund”—or emergency fund—could actually be enjoyable πŸ’°.

Especially now that I’m saving my emergency fund in a high-yield savings account πŸ“ˆ. Yes, I finally made the move—carefully, as always, and with the right precautions in place πŸ›‘️.

There’s a small dopamine hit every time I see my fund growing day by day πŸ˜„πŸ“Š. It’s a simple joy, but it feels like a little win added to my day—and I’ll take those wins whenever I can.

A quick note on interest and taxes πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­πŸ§Ύ

Just sharing this for transparency and awareness:

  • Interest earned in the Philippines is subject to a 20% tax

  • My high-yield savings account earns around 3.5%–6% interest

  • I earn roughly ₱50 per month in interest

  • After the 20% tax, that becomes about ₱40

It’s not a huge amount, but watching money grow—no matter how small—still feels rewarding πŸ’ΈπŸ™‚.

Protect your online presence πŸ”πŸ“±

Using online banking has been incredibly convenient and efficient. That said, it’s also important to stay vigilant. Creative hackers are everywhere, and protecting yourself is non-negotiable.

Here are a few practices I follow to keep my finances safe:

  • ❌ Don’t click suspicious links

  • πŸ“Ά Never connect to public Wi-Fi

  • πŸ“ž Be cautious of scam calls asking for personal details

In today’s digital world, we need to be smarter and more proactive about protecting what’s ours. These simple steps go a long way toward reducing financial stress.

Less worry about money is one of my main goals 🧘‍♀️πŸ’–. If I can eliminate even one major source of stress from my life, that already feels like a win.

That’s it for now.
Thanks so much for reading all the way through 🀍

Friday, January 23, 2026

I Didn’t Wanted to Pay off my Debt Until I Did

Why do I have to pay off debt? πŸ€”


Isn’t going straight to investing the best and most logical way? πŸ“ˆπŸ’­

That’s how stupid the way I used to think back then πŸ˜….

I didn’t want to pay off my debt until I discovered Dave Ramsey’s 7 Baby Steps, specifically Baby Step #2 πŸ‘£.



To be honest, I skipped straight to Baby Step #4 because I wanted to try time deposits 🏦, thinking at least my money would earn a bit of interest πŸ’°. Not to mention I was in my 30's already back then and I really want time to be on my side. That so-called “investing” felt slow 🐒, while my debt kept creeping back into my mind πŸ‘€πŸ’³.

That’s when it started to feel like Dave Ramsey was actually right.

“The borrower is slave to the lender.” πŸ“–⚖️

That verse haunted every money decision I made πŸ§ πŸ’Έ.

To give more context, I had two kinds of debt:

  • SSS loan πŸ›️

  • Personal loan from a family member 🀝

I felt that Bible verse the most with the second loan.

For context, my brother was kind enough to fund my ticket so I could work overseas ✈️🌍. But after three years abroad, I still didn’t have enough money to pay him back πŸ˜”. Maybe I’ll make another post about my OFW life as an update someday.

Back to the topic. As the years passed, I began to understand what Dave often says on his show πŸŽ™️—suddenly, every money decision becomes a big deal.

Even though I was spending my own money, I constantly felt like I was being judged on every decision I made 😢‍🌫️. Because I had debt to my brother, every comment felt like strict judgment. I know the intention was good, but the pain of unsolicited comments affects me.

I truly felt like a slave ⛓️.

The borrower is slave to the lender.

Proverbs 22:7


After two years of thinking about it and putting off the idea of paying, in 2023, I finally had the courage to pay my brother in full πŸ’ͺπŸ’΅. My budget felt tight 😬, but I pushed through.

And I’m glad I did ✨.

No more feeling judged by my family πŸ™Œ.
For the first time, it felt like I had a backbone 🦴.

I know I’m still lacking in many aspects, but I’m grateful that I finally got this debt out of the way πŸ™.

That’s it for now ✨

Thanks for reading all the way!



Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Forget about leverage! I Now Save Slowly & Invest Conservatively

I still remember the time when I wanted to get rich quick πŸ’Έ⚡… and how it backfired instantly 🀦‍♀️πŸ’₯
Instead of getting rich, I somehow managed to get poor quickly instead πŸ˜‚πŸ₯².

πŸ˜‚

That’s why I wanted to look back and reflect on why I now prefer saving conservatively πŸ’πŸ’°, and which financial guru I currently follow.

Remember the phase when I was raving about “leverage” πŸ“ˆ, desperately trying to ditch my so-called “poor dad” mentality 🧠❌. I have a lot of post about it here in the blog. I genuinely tried to learn, try to read more book πŸ€“πŸ“š, believing leverage and get-rich-quick ideas were the way out πŸš€. But in reality, that mindset burned my bum straight back to the ground πŸ”₯πŸ˜…⬇️.

Just to be clear, I’m not blaming anyone πŸ™. All the decisions was done by me to begin with. πŸͺž.
This is simply a reminder that not everything you hear on the internet is meant for you 🌐⚠️. & I have to learn this lesson the hard way 🧱.


I’m truly thankful that I eventually found Dave Ramsey’s conservative approach to building wealth 🧾✨. His philosophy helped me slow down πŸ›‘and stop chasing shortcuts.

This is currently where I'm at with his 7 Baby Steps

  • Baby steps 2 : Pay off all debt (except the house) πŸ’³➡️❌
  • Baby steps 3: Save 3-6 Months of expenses for emergenciesπŸš¨πŸ’΅


I didn’t follow the steps perfectly or “to the tee” 🫣 at first, but when I started the Baby steps #3,  after I paid my SSS loan and my personal loan I started to feel lighter financially πŸͺΆ. Together with the practice of gratitude πŸ™—something Dave Ramsey always emphasizes—I truly felt grounded 🌍. It helped me understand the importance of staying humble 🀍 and being a good steward of the Lord’s blessings ✨✝️.


Looking back, I think I had enough of that grabbing mentality 🀲⚡, the need for everything to be instant ⏱️. It revealed a part of my character I had to confront πŸͺž. Being brought back down taught me something valuable πŸŽ“: there’s peace πŸ•Š️ in not chasing material things that don’t truly matter 🧘‍♀️.

Right now, it’s enough for me to:

  • Manage what I have as best as I can πŸ§ πŸ’Ό

  • Nurture my relationships with my family πŸ‘¨‍πŸ‘©‍πŸ‘§‍πŸ‘¦❤️

  • Show up well for my colleagues at work πŸ€πŸ™‚

That’s it for now ✨


Thanks for reading all the way πŸ™πŸ’›





Saturday, January 17, 2026

Why Emergency Funds Matter to Me

 Why Emergency Funds Matter to Me

🚫 Definitely, there is no way I am going to skip this 1st step on how to be financially responsible & this time, nothing's gonna stop or halt or stall me from creating one.

πŸ“– A little back story.

πŸ˜– The word emergency has always left a dull taste in my mouth whenever I hear it. You know that mindset — why would I anticipate an “emergency” in my life? I was that person for many years. This became my excuse to save for almost anything, except an emergency fund.

πŸ’­ To be fair, my financial goal has always been a transformation — like it went all over the place:

  • ⬅️ to the left

  • πŸ“ˆ from false peak

  • πŸ“‰ back down

  • πŸ” then back down and starting over again

& it's impossible to describe it, I think I have tried a bunch of approach in finances. So for the sake of this story, let us just put it that way.

✨ My ultimate goal for saving back then was never really an emergency fund. What I wanted is the usual financial freedom that everybody talks about.

🧠 But over time, I started to accept that financial freedom doesn’t happen overnight. It happens through a series of steps — and one of the first steps that many people agree on is building an emergency fund.

πŸ™…πŸ½‍♀️ Still, because I disliked the word emergency so much, it took me a long time to fully accept the idea. I even tried renaming it at one point — I forgot what I called it back then, but I clearly remember giving it a nickname just so I could feel better about saving for it πŸ˜….

πŸ“± More recently, I came across someone online who shared a perspective that finally clicked with me. Instead of calling it an emergency fund, she called it a “gap.”

🚫 Not an emergency —πŸ‘‰πŸ½ a gap.

πŸ’‘ Her logic was simple:

  • the bigger the gap between your money and your expenses, the safer you feel

  • the more months of expenses you can cover in advance — three months, six months — the richer you feel internally

✨ Brilliant isn't it? Now you are not expecting for something bad to happen. It’s now about you know you are covered in advance. Like I feel rich that way, I can take care of the future expenses — hair flip πŸ’πŸ½‍♀️.

πŸŽ‰ I was pretty proud of myself for finally seeing it that way πŸ˜„.

🌱 That inner resistance I had for years slowly disappeared, and for the first time, I felt excited to save for my emergency fund. For me, the bigger the gap, the better 😊.

πŸ™ I still have a lot to work on, but I’m genuinely grateful that I finally started building my emergency fund during the 2025 holiday season πŸŽ„. That alone feels like real progress.

πŸ’Œ That’s it for now — thank you for reading all the way through.


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Friday, January 16, 2026

Simple Mistakes I made why I stall funding my Emergency fund

Even when I first entered the workforce at a young age, I felt I was a fairly responsible person πŸ’°. I already understood the importance of saving, and I truly believed that this alone would set me up financially.

Like most people, I saved because I dreamed of a time when money wouldn’t feel so heavy. I wanted to earn more, worry less, and provide generously for myself and my family 🀍. Saving felt like the obvious solution — and of course, having an emergency fund sounded like the first thing to do.

So why is it that, looking back now — over a decade later (yes, OMG πŸ˜…) — it’s only in 2025 that I’ve managed to gather a small amount that I can finally call an emergency fund?

This is what I realized.

Even though I knew the importance of saving, I was never able to maintain it keep it -as it keep it aside. I think this is what's logically happened. To start of with savings, to make room for it, I often adjusted my food budget 🍚. It felt like this is the easiest place to cut back.

My thinking was simple:

  • Eat less →

  • Spend less →

  • Save more (which will go towards my emergency fund)

That was the logic I followed & apparently the biggest mistake that I made in my life that affects my finances.

Even though I saved consistently, I kept running into the same problem.

My savings were never really growing — they were constantly being used to patch up basic necessities.

I would dip into them because:

  • I didn’t have enough money to last until payday πŸ’Έ

  • I needed money for food 🍽️

  • I needed transportation 🚍

  • I had to replace worn-out work shoes πŸ‘Ÿ
    (I might write a separate post about this — I want to start with what I did wrong starting about food here πŸ˜‚)

That’s when I began to understand something important: being low income comes with a hidden premium.


The Hidden Cost of Cutting Food

Cutting back on food may look smart, but the body eventually demands proper nutrition. Maybe not today, but tomorrow — when hunger catches up and your body asks for real nourishment 🍽️.

Yes, fish is healthy 🐟. A piece of fried chicken πŸ” sounds yummy too. But a small portion doesn’t always meet your daily protein and nutrient needs. Back then, I lived very simply — even a meal from a popular fast-food chain in the Philippines felt like a luxury to me.

Eating this way kept me constantly hungry. And because of that, I often ended up spending more on food than I originally planned.

This cycle followed me for years (like I said, over a decade, it's unreal) of my working life. I dreamed of saving more, but the money kept going toward survival — mostly food and other basic needs.


What Finally Changed

Once I realized something was wrong, I went deep into self-help and self-care 🧘‍♂️πŸ“š and experimented with different diets until I eventually stumbled upon the carnivore diet πŸ₯©. Gone were the days of eating just to eat, without thinking about proper nutrition 🍽️. & thank God I finally let go of my childish behavior of eating fast-food that I thought was the best thing in the world.

I started choosing my food more intentionally — not at a professional dietitian level πŸ‘©‍⚕️, but in a simple, practical way. For me, beef naturally provides essential nutrients, especially B vitamins 🧠⚡, without requiring much overthinking. I may be a bit biased here πŸ˜…, but compared to chicken πŸ” or fish 🐟, when I eat beef in a day πŸ₯©, I feel:

  • more focused 🧠

  • full for longer ⏳

  • less tempted to overspend later πŸ’Έ

Yes, it’s that simple.

With a properly nourished body & felt full longer - much longer-  my money decisions became clearer. I could finally set a food budget that made sense — and actually stick to it.

I stopped overspending, and for the first time, saving and building my emergency fund felt possible. More importantly, being properly nourished helped clear my mind — no more brain fog or constant forgetfulness — which allowed me to plan my life and approach my finances with intention. I finally felt grounded, with a real foundation to face life’s challenges, including money.


Who knew that a simple change — choosing the right food — could set you up for success in whatever you’re aiming for, even something as simple as starting an emergency fund πŸ™‚


 

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