I realized that 2020 has crushed me hard spritually and financially.
Which makes me appreciate 2021 even more.
With new perspective about faith ( though still unperfect to this day) and new perspective about money. Better understanding about my hidden health issues, and being mindful of my brain functions.
2021 has opened my eyes to what is important in life.
And that is to be a good steward of the Lord and to have good relationship with everyone. Because God is in everyone, and if I hated one person, that means I hated God in a way.
Being good with everyone else is a huge challenge though.
Because, that's what I do all my life.
To resist people's authority over me.
To empower oneself. To be independent.
I hated pleasing people, I hated kiss people's ass, just to be liked.
Not sure what month/year I came across Chris Voss book Never Split the Difference, but this book has answered my problem onto kissing other people's ass.
Negotiation is the key, to not hate other people, point out your cause and still be friends with them.
Negotiation has been life changing for me this year 2021.
Using negotiation, I stopped being annoying at conversions, I can able to pass thru difficult situations and I can able work win difficult people.
Lastly, I am so thankful about my work.
I never thought I would be offered this work and I am so thankful.
Health/brain
Faith
Finances/new work
That is it.
What more could I ask. After what 2020 brought me, anything is just felt like blessing this 2021.
I am grateful and thankful.
Thanks for reading all the way 💞.
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